Meetings: calm is professionalism
In meetings, whether with founders or with providers, the more relaxed I am, the better. The belief that a meeting is important is what skews the way I approach and perceive things. Meetings do not need to be that formal, they need to be direct, precise, clear. Confidence is not proved by concentrating on being confident. It is proved by communicating with professionalism, knowing what I am saying, and being clear about what I want from the other person. Expressing my ideas in a way that fits the person I am talking to is fundamental (the hats game). That we might reach an agreement afterwards does not mean I have to inflate its importance today. Reaching potential agreements lives in the future. Today we are going to get to know each other and talk calmly about what we want to do, our goals, and how we can help one another. There must be mutual respect and self-recognition of value on both sides, and only then should we explore how we can bring value to each other. I know what I want and how I want it, and I trust my intuition every time it recognizes in someone else what I am looking for. That is why trusting intuition is vital, and why knowing what I want, setting limits, and defining my convictions matters so much: it will be in my unconscious the whole time, matching signals from the outside against what I have already registered. Trust intuition in the moments of truth.
